Sometimes 'It Takes Two to Tango'

The tango is a South American dance that is passionate and emotionally intense between two people. Our expression for today's program is: It takes two to tango! So, let's do the tango … in an expression. Like the tango, some actions or activities take two people. You can't do them alone. Like a fight. Fighting with yourself, whether a verbal argument or a fist fight, would look really silly! And doing the tango by yourself might look silly too. We also use this expression when two people or two parties are responsible for getting something done. For example, some reforms in the United States will need both parties to come together. After all, it takes two to tango. Sometimes we shorten this expression by leaving out the subject and say, “takes two to tango.” Here are more examples. We need to work together on this problem, or we will never find a solution. Like the saying goes, “it takes two to tango.’’ This project is too big for one person. I'll help you. Takes two to tango! We have a similar expression. It also means that two people are involved in something. The expression “two can play at that game” means what one person does, another can do too. We use this expression to involve ourselves in the action: We are going to do the same thing that someone else is doing. Let's say, someone plays a trick on you. They throw a balloon filled with water at you and you get soaked. You shout, “Two can play at that game!” And then you throw a water balloon at them! Usually we use this in an “I will get you back” kind of way. Here's an example. Look I know that you want the new job in the design department. So, I'm going to tell you something – something about Daryl. He wants the job too, doesn't he? And he just invited the boss to a football game. Well, two can play at that game. I will invite the boss … to … karaoke night. I don't think the boss sings. I don't think that's a thing. But keep thinking. Now back to our first expression – it takes two to tango. Learning a language is difficult to do alone. After all, it takes two to tango!